Those who love love are often afraid of love
Those who want love, who are eagerly looking for it and always get it thrown into their lap and then can’t hold it, are often the ones who dare not allow love.
You can only admit love if you are in love with yourself and understand that you first have to be kind to yourself, that you then only dare to admit love. Love is very simple in essence. It’s there, you don’t have to do anything for it. You don’t have to look for it, it’s always there.
You’re here anyway! You are love anyway. How sweet are you to yourself, do you do everything the way you want it to be, do you do it your way and don’t be fooled by what society or others expect from you. Because then you are only busy giving love away with the result that you can’t allow love. Out of fear.
The reason why those who have difficulty with love, is the fear that they have, that they are not good enough themselves. That they don’t deserve love. They will do anything and everything to show the other person that they are so comfortable. The consequence of this is that the other person will feel anxious, feel enormous pressure and will withdraw.
Allowing love is all about being kind to yourself. How do you know if you are now? Your feeling knows that exactly and if you listen to it, then you are there. Then you have everything to give for love in the right way and to dare to receive love.
What does this look like in practice! You do your best terribly, you don’t drop stitches. You take everything seriously and you know where your responsibility lies. You respect others. Whether this is the right way for you, you have no idea. Whether you are doing the right thing for yourself, not thinking about it. You do it as it did to you and you do it with all your heart.
In the area of love, building something together with someone else, you have not yet succeeded. In the meantime you have had to deal with some disappointments, which you don’t understand well. Because in a relationship you didn’t hurt the other person. In your eyes, the other person hurt you. Yet you stayed, you stayed, because you wanted to make it a success. You stayed just as long, until the other person cheated on you, that the other person left you with all kind of question marks.
In terms of love and relationships you have already seen all the scenarios come by and you are now in a state of, for me it is actually no longer necessary. Because whatever I do, it never seems to be good enough. You don’t dare to admit love, that’s why love works together with someone else, not yet.
Only if you dare to admit love and for that you must first become kind to yourself, will love succeed with someone else. But I still do everything as it should! I don’t hurt anyone? That’s right, but are you doing everything as it should and are being asked of you, or are you doing everything as you think it should.
Where is the mistake you made? They gave up everything for the other. As soon as the love of another comes round the corner, they no longer count themselves and give everything away, they give away so much that it can oppress the other. That the other person has no room to give his love.
Giving everything away to another, you do, because you hope that as a result the other person will also give you something about love. Here is the mistake you made. You give too much love away.
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