You ask for problems if you think that everything goes well
When you only think everything is ok, but you don’t feel it, you cause problems. Both of you live too much their own lifes. It is necessary to have daily talks. you need to talk to each other daily to find out if you are still at the same heigh.
If you don’t do that, you will be alienated from each other. Don’t you say everything to each other, then at a given moment you have the feeling that you no longer know who you are sharing your life with. Then there is a natural need to contact others, or to put an end to the relationship. Beause you aren not satisfied anymore.
We then put the blame on the other, do not look at ourselves, that we ourselves were also unable to maintain the relationship in the right way.
Almost 40, the relationship has been broken since a week and he has been temporarily withdrawn from his mother. Staying in a small room and ask a medium if this is definitive and what he should do to get everything back to normal.
Then you are 40 and back to top. Do you have no idea what to do? Shaken awake brutally from a dream that you thought was good for a long time and now you realize that it was all not as obvious as you thought it was.
Back when finished, back home, under mother’s wings, no one wants that. And yet it happens. And then suddenly we are very small and we have no idea what to do and contact a medium with a lot of question, who are irrelevant. We ask the question, when will this be all right again!
The question that is asked, is a very logical one. Because in the eyes of the man, it was good and if it is now as quickly as possible with the old, totally ignoring what is going on, then it is good again. Then it is solved. This is also the only thing that comes to mind in humans. What comes to mind is that we want the old back and as soon as possible. Because the small room is terrible to stay in, let alone that meddling mother on your lip.
Man’s thoughts run overtime in such situations. The life that you thought was right, in your eyes, has been swept away in one go. We are shooting acutely into a survival mode and can no longer properly oversee the situation. Stuck in what was, passing if it was good. Our own thoughts are on it 24 hours a day and constantly indicate, this is not possible, what happened!
I want to go back to how it was. When is it time! There is no longer any realization that there is a reason why this happened. We don’t want to see it, we don’t want to hear it. We can’t be open to it. The only thing that counts, is back to the old.
The old will never com back. Maybe you and your ex will make a new start together, but the old didn’t function, so why back to the old?
A medium first answers the client’s questions and then very carefully starts to comment or ask a counter question. She doesn’t do this to put the chatter or caller in descredit. This is done by a medium, because it sees that there is much more going on than the client can now see for himself. The client first has to see what is really going on, before he can go on futher with his life and maybe togehther with his ex.