All you have to do is be kind to yourself
What would your life look like if you did everything you do for yourself. Every step you take, a conscious step is for yourself. All the people you would allow into your life are a conscious choice and you are surrounded by mere people who mean well to you?
What would your life look like then? just like now, or do you dream of dream, that will never happen. If you think so, it will never happen. You are skeptical about it, because you find it very strange to love yourself.
Your life is more about completely different things. Of finding or having a partner, you associate that love with that. Can you tell, without a self-life, no partner will stay with you. In fact, you always choose the wrong one yourself.
Only when you fully accept yourself, that you can forgive yourself in everything, that you find yourself pleasant company. that you are not afraid of making choices, letting people go, enjoying being alone, Filling your days with what makes you happy, then you will meet the right lover.
After all, you are sweet and kind to yourself, so you look at who you allow or not in your life from a completely different perspective. You let go of those who want to claim you, who have jealous traits, who do not take you seriously enough.
In the past that was not the case, then you were happy that someone gave you your attention and you immediately fell for the first. Not anymore, from self-love you protect yourself against calamity, against drama, against suffering and pain.
What is so beautiful about being sweet and kind to yourself, you also have a dull look at what is happening around you. You look at it with a look that says, boys stop all those reproaches at each other, give each other something.
Grant each other freedom of life, the way the other person wants to do it himself, accept and respect that. You can see that many are just toddlers and are still relational in the beginner’s shoes.
Being kind to yourself, if we were to learn that as a child, that would have so many positive effects on the rest of our lives, but no, we have to perform, learn a trade. Earn money. self love, what is that. You will find out after having lived like a puppet doll for many years.
You only begin to see self-love after many setbacks during those setbacks you have consulted a medium. You have benefited a lot from those conversations. At first you didn’t hear what the medium said, you didn’t understand her. Some self-love, some letting go, some choices.
After a few conversations with the Mastermedium medium, you started to see what she meant exactly and that triggered a total change in you. you stopped pleasing and asking for attention. The nice effect of that was, you saw it, that people came to you.
You stopped following people, they started calling you if something was wrong. You stopped arguing, you didn’t think the excitement was worth it anymore. Others started to notice that you were so different. That you laughed much more, became much more open and spontaneous.
You now know that you will never let yourself be abused again, that you must be very clear about what you want. Must indicate if you need something and especially leave your head alone. You now know that answers always come and you should never worry about them. What a nice life is living from self-love. I never want to go back to my old me.