If your heart is not beating for yourself

If your heart is not beating for yourself, it cannot be beating for anyone. Then you may think that you love someone, but this is not love. This is clinging to the first one that gives you love in your eyes. Then you have been searching all your life for wanting to receive that magical feeling that gives love.

But your heart is not beating for yourself. So you have no idea of your value, you give it away, without thinking about who. Who knows, the other person is not someone who can give you love. your heart is not beating for yourself. So you go into the sea with someone who, like you, may have a heart that is not right for him.

That will express itself in, arguments, wanting to change each other. Being angry, drive your way as a small child. Because you have a certain image and feeling how or the love must feel and see the window. but because your heart is not beating for yourself, you do not know whether the love of the other person is genuine and genuine. You will wonder every day if the other person will stay with you. You will organize your life every day so that the other person feels good.

If your heart also beats for you, you will dare to set limits. You will continue to do things that are good for yourself. You will not want to change the other person, but you will indicate what you are happy with and what you are not.

All this, because your heart also beats for yourself. You then also notice whether the heart for the other beats for itself or not. If you see that this is not the case, you are not going to share your life with this person. Because you know that this person has no idea what love is giving and receiving. He will lean on you too much. He will want to claim and reject you because you want to continue to lead your own life.

The effect that if your heart also beats for yourself is very great. It is so big that you will carefully select your partner. You take plenty of time for that. because you are aware that after a few months you do not know how the other person works. You don’t blindly fall for the other. you want to know if the other person will invest time and effort in you. Prepare to make time for you. You want to know what this person finds important in life. you will look and observe, until you have 100% certainty for yourself that this is the partner that fits and fits you. And all because your heart is beating for yourself.

Through trial and error you have found that a life without a heart that is beating for yourself only gives you sorrow and pain. That in love it only gives disappointments.

You have now found out, through a few good conversations with a psychic on Mastermedium that always caused you pain in love. Your heart was not beating for yourself. You gave away all your love, you saved nothing for yourself.

You have decided to get started and practice to make your heart beat for yourself. It is not easy, you have since found out. You still say a lot to think, while you actually don’t have time to help the other person. you give too little counter gas if you notice that others make an unkind remark that affects you.

But you also see that you are becoming increasingly aware of where things are going wrong and that means that you are beginning to understand how life works. First be good to yourself, then someone else’s turn. You have turned that around your entire life and you have had disappointments, while you thought you were doing so well. Have you now discovered that just giving is not the way?

The way is, being kind to yourself, then you automatically know how to be kind to someone else.