Negative people how to respond
We cannot escape it in our lives, from negative people. They drain your energy, they always have problems. Expect someone else to solve them for them. And when that happens, they have something to say and complain about. The circle is round again.
A negative person does not have to be a bad person. In your eyes it is a bad person, in your eyes you experience a different way of living with this person. It is not yours and that is allowed, because every person can stand in his own way in life.
But you notice and feel whether someone is negative or not. They suck energy from you, you often only feel that afterwards. Then you are exhausted and tired. You are often disappointed in them, if you have done something for them. They would have expected it differently or better, or you didn’t do it their way.
Often, those who help these people are the good ones. They like to be ready for someone else, do not know who they should and should not help. That is the key. That you very well realize, who appreciates my help and who does not.
Incidentally, giving help is nice, even better is to give help only when the other person asks you for it and you feel the space, the energy and the skill to offer help. You will always find yourself standing by yourself, no matter how strange that may sound.
People subconsciously expect a certain equality from each other. If you are always ready, you are not equal, they will unconsciously give you respect. If you are a helper and you find that you do not get any respect from your fellow human beings, it is good to consider this.
Because you also attract negative people, just like they have a nose that they can go to you. You are happy that someone asks you something, it gives you a feeling of being needed and that feels good.
The consequence of this is that you will often experience negativity around you. Namely, those who often ask for help are those who do not take responsibility for and for their own lives. They put them in the hands of others. It is strange that it is never good for these people and they complain and therefore radiate negative energy. Whereby you are emptied.
Time for a change and you can say goodbye to those who are negative in life. Get out of your life, but you find that very difficult.
There is help nearby in the form of a few good conversations with a medium or psychic on Mastermedium. They will show you which energy eaters play a role in your life. They will also teach you how you can deal with them from now on. Which language you need to speak for that.
Because tell yourself, you actually know very well who you like and who you prefer not to have in your area. Are you also tired of those who always have something to complain about? You still listen to them, and you admit them, but preferably not. But yes, it’s so pathetic and so sorry to drop them.
No, the only thing you drop now is yourself. If you help too many people in negative energy, you are constantly tired. Take care of yourself insufficiently. You are really short of yourself. You don’t have to show them the door, they speak a different language. A language with guts and courage.