Talk from the heart

Talking from the heart has no bad, mean, sarcastic undertone. You take yourself and the other into account. you carefully read the words. The words you pronounce are not hostile or ego.

This way you speak on the right key, the other feels that respect. Stay connected with you in this way. This is reflected in and not projected. After all, you do not defend yourself and the other person does not have to defend himself or answer to you.

Why is this way of communicating so important? you don’t get stuck with pent-up emotions. It is a matter of practice, but it will certainly bear fruit. especially if you practice with a Mastermedium.

Every day has moments when you want to say something, but somehow it fails. The situation cannot be right, but often it is true that you are overwhelmed by what someone else is saying and you cannot switch immediately and the moment has passed to say something back.

That way, you are left with unspoken emotions every day that will bother you at some point. If you meet the person in question again, there is nothing between you at that moment and yet, it is there, unconsciously.

If you know yourself very well, you know this too. Have you realized this and even if you make a commitment every time, don’t let the cheese eat from your bread, express yourself and do it immediately. It won’t work. You let yourself be taken in, you let yourself down. You let someone else overrule you. In meetings you have, you find yourself, quite good ideas, but you keep your mouth shut, afraid that what you are going to say will not really add anything.

You count, you are important, you can be there, so you can also say everything you have in your heart. There will come a time when you will not get away with it. Your body starts to stir, and you experience all kinds of inconveniences. You are then literally forced to vent your heart.

But then it will probably look less pleasant than you would like. There is now an emotional charge underneath that you are going to ventilate. For that reason, it is incredibly important to really express yourself if you feel the need. And yes, how do you do that. How do you do that, that you just always air your heart, without feeling burden. Without feeling guilty.

In fact, your fear of daring to go and do it. Because you stop that. The fear that is not needed for anything, but is there. Because if it weren’t there, you would really air your heart.

Tackling is actually very simple. Follow your heart and your feelings. Listen to that, they give you the words. If you say feeling, this does not feel nice, then you pronounce those words aloud. If your feeling says, how nice this is. Then you pronounce those words.

In this way you always air your heart. You get respect from others and you will find that you feel much calmer. in this way you also dare to state much earlier if you do not like something. You don’t take it home as a concern. You can really close the door behind your work.

This also applies to all other contacts in your life. It has many advantages in relation to relational care. By talking to each other in this way, you come closer together.